Mister Rogers had a simple set of rules for talking to children (2018)

For the millions of adults who grew up watching him on public television, Fred Rogers represents the most important human values: respect, compassion, kindness, integrity, humility. On Mister Rogers' Neighborhood, the show that he created 50 years ago and starred in, he was the epitome of simple, natural ease. As Arthur Greenwald, a former producer of the show, put it to me, "There were no accidents on Mister Rogers' Neighborhood." He took great pains not to mislead or confuse children, and his team of writers joked that his on-air manner of speaking amounted to a distinct language they called "Freddish." Once, Rogers provided new lyrics for the "Tomorrow" song that ended each show, to ensure that children watching on Friday wouldn't expect a show on Saturday, when the show didn't air. Hedda Sharapan, one of the staff members at Fred Rogers's production company, Family Communications, Inc., recalls Rogers once halted taping of a show when a cast member told the puppet Henrietta Pussycat not to cry; he interrupted shooting to make it clear that his show would never suggest to children that they not cry. In working on the show, Rogers interacted extensively with academic researchers. "I spent hours talking with Fred and taking notes," Greenwald said, "Then hours talking with Margaret McFarland before I went off and wrote the scripts. Then Fred made them better." As simple as Mister Rogers' Neighborhood looked and sounded, every detail in it was the product of a tremendously careful, academically informed process.